Would You Rather…
…have a job you love with very low pay or a have a job you hate that pays very high?
Hannah: A job I love with low pay! You have to love what you do!
Collier: It’s not like I’m getting rich in the Army, so I’m gonna go with the low pay.
Whitleigh: Gonna have to say low pay. I’m a stay at home momma and I’d rather be paid in kissed any day.
…find your true love but have all your friends hate you or never find your one true love and have a lot of caring, good friends?
Hannah: That’s hard Jess! I see the pros in both! It’s all about learning to be content in whatever situation you’re in. Since I HAVE to answer, I will. I would find my true love and have all my friends hate me. There’s something beautiful about the marriage bond God designed. Friends have to understand that.
Collier: Hmm. Well. I get the whole having friends thing, but when you find the one you love you need to go for it. Fight for it. Friends don’t cuddle to well anyway. Believe me, being out in the field with a bunch of smelly guys. Yuck.
Whitleigh: First off, I’d have to find out why my friends hated my one true love. There’s something to be said about wise council. Perhaps they could see things in my love that I couldn’t, and then I could address those issues with him. With that said, I’m going to side with Collier and his answer.
…If in doubt with the person you love is it better to continue following or let go?
Hannah: My initial reaction is to always make it work. I’m so pro-marriage it’s not even funny, but you didn’t mention anything about marriage, lol. If you’re in doubt with that person you love, talk to them. Try to work it out. Get professional counseling if need be. The lack of communication is a love and relationship killer.
Collier: As a soldier you follow orders as their given no questions asked. There are some serious consequences if you don’t, but in love, that’s a different game. If we’re talking marriage, follow, work it out, but if you’re dating, try to work it through but don’t break your back without a commitment there. Know what I mean?
Whitleigh: Hannah, I couldn’t agree more. Collier and I struggled with communication. We weren’t getting each other and then we stopped talking about the big subjects for one reason or another. I had many doubts about our relationship, but it was important not to let go.
…always be serious or never, ever be serious about anything?
Hannah: I would be always serious, but I’d have to have someone never, ever serious around me to provide comic relief while I freak out over solving the world’s problems.
Collier: Never, ever be serious. Life is so full of terrible things that I honestly would rather laugh my way through life than have to keep seeing the things I’ve seen.
Whitleigh: I’m okay with Collier being the never, ever serious one. I’ll go ahead and be always serious. Like Hannah said, that would be a nice balance to have one with the other. I tend to be more serious anyway.
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Battles Raging Within Are The Ones You Must Fight To Win
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Army wife, Whitleigh Cromwell, struggles after an unexpected deployment during the height of the Iraqi war sends her husband, Collier Cromwell, away for another year. Their lives tumble down a path marked with strife, and fatalities, crippling their faith when Collier brings home a war of another kind leaving Whitleigh wondering if some wounds are beyond God’s ability to restore.